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There’s this girl I work with who is so much bigger than me. She was talking about ordering food and the enthusiasm she had. She also kept eating popcorn with extra flavoring (I work in a theatre) during our shift. She was talking about eating meatball subs in bed and everything. It was hard for me to focus lol. I’m so jealous but also kinda excited to see if she gets bigger. Does anyone else have a bit of gaining/fat envy like me?

I used to, until I grew a big gut. 🤣

That’ll do it lol. Love your pics btw!

As a feeder, no. But what you feel is very common

Yea I think it's kinda like gender envy for trans folk

I’m sure there are others like you. I follow a lot of feedees, foodies, stuffer, inflators, bloaters and gainers on IG and they all have a great deal of respect for each other and with mention how they admire each other’s size or capacity even if they themselves aren’t there yet.

I would befriend her and ask if she could take you under her wing if I were you. Then make it a friendly competition to catch up to her and or surpass her. Me and my brother did that’s for YEARS with Tekken and Super Smash Bros. Loool. But now we got old. We’re in our 30’s now 😅

It’s kind of like with conventional beauty, you’ll see people who YOU think are way better looking than you, but at the end of the day beauty is very subjective, even literal supermodels will have guys that don’t deem them their type. Not because they’re better than her or too good for her, but because they just don’t like that kind of woman.

With feedees I think it’s the same, you wish you were as big or bigger than someone else, maybe change how your new fat is distributed around but at the end just like conventional beauty: you can’t change it no matter how hard you try and frankly you shouldn’t have to want to change for someone else!

As a gainer, yeah, I totally have that. One of the reason I finally decided to embrace my gaining side was because I saw a before-after picture with multiple stages of growth of a random gainer who literally tripled his weight, and I was blown away by his results and I felt like a child pointing a finger at a window shop yelling at the mother "I wan dat toy! I wan dat toy!". 😂

Clearly, it's not guaranteed that we accumulate fat the same way as others, but the good news is: my shapes look like a lot his when he had my actual weight!

And now that I joined this community, I can't deny I see many people heavier than me, and often than not I'm envy that they already reached what are my actually weight gain goals!

Is it a rational thing? Eh, probably is not even rational to deliberately trying to get fatter, so it is what it is, human psychology and what not, blah blah blah. Let's just have fun!

Yes this is something that happens to more feedist than you think. My ex was incredibly envious of women bigger than her. Now my ex was in the 300's but always wanted more. It slowly deteriorated her mind to being focused just on "catching up" to friends instead or focusing on the now.

You can have a little envy here and there but try not to make it a full on obsession where you need to swap bodies.

Yeah, ofc. I've been inspired by lots of people bigger than me that I craved to be like. I'm bigger than some of them now,which is kinda amaze ❤️ Love yourself and ❤️ where you are at